qemu-vm: fix inconsistent caching of xchg dirs

xchg is advertised as a bidirectional exchange dir, but file content
transfer from host to VM fails due to caching:
If a file is read in the VM and then modified on the host, subsequent
re-reads in the VM can yield old, cached data.
This is caused by the use of 9p's cache=loose mode that is explicitly
meant for read-only mounts.

9p doesn't provide any suitable cache modes, so fix this by disabling
caching.

Also, remove a now unnecessary sync in the test driver.

nixos/lib/test-driver/test-driver.py

@@ -615,7 +615,6 @@ class Machine:
             # Copy the file to the shared directory inside VM
             self.succeed(make_command(["mkdir", "-p", vm_shared_temp]))
             self.succeed(make_command(["cp", "-r", vm_src, vm_intermediate]))
-            self.succeed("sync")
             abs_target = out_dir / target_dir / vm_src.name
             abs_target.parent.mkdir(exist_ok=True, parents=True)
             # Copy the file from the shared directory outside VM