lib: Discourage use of extend

It creates interoperability issues that can not be reconciled by
`lib` or maintainers of projects that use the Nixpkgs library.
Occasionally, end users may be able to solve the problems they run
into, but most are not prepared to deal with this set of problems,
nor should they be.

Typical conflict:
- User wants to propagate their own lib, because it has some function
  they like to use throughout their projects
- Project maintainer requires the project's lib to be used

No sane language uses a single namespace for combining all the things.
(Arguably not even C with its extensive use of prefixing)

Meanwhile, in Nix, all symbols are first class variables. We don't even
have the concept of a global top-level namespace to pour everything into.
With `lib` you can try to approximate that, I get the appeal of its
apparent simplicity, but since `lib` can't be global, we just don't even
get that apparent simplicity.

I apologize for not offering concrete solutions to this in the text.
The manuals are limited to reference documentation.
Alternatives - of which we have multiple - are best provided in
task-oriented documentation, e.g. nix.dev.

lib/default.nix

@@ -5,9 +5,36 @@
  */
 let
 
-  inherit (import ./fixed-points.nix { inherit lib; }) makeExtensible;
+  # A copy of `lib.makeExtensible'` in order to document `extend`.
+  # It has been leading to some trouble, so we have to document it specially.
+  makeExtensible' =
+    rattrs:
+    let self = rattrs self // {
+          /**
+            Patch the Nixpkgs library
 
-  lib = makeExtensible (self: let
+            The name `extends` is a bit misleading, as it doesn't actually extend the library, but rather patches it.
+            It is merely a consequence of being implemented by `makeExtensible`.
+
+            # Inputs
+
+            - An "extension function" `f` that returns attributes that will be updated in the returned Nixpkgs library.
+
+            # Output
+
+            A patched Nixpkgs library.
+
+            :::{.warning}
+            This functionality is intended as an escape hatch for when the provided version of the Nixpkgs library has a flaw.
+
+            If you were to use it to add new functionality, you will run into compatibility and interoperability issues.
+            :::
+          */
+          extend = f: lib.makeExtensible (lib.extends f rattrs);
+        };
+    in self;
+
+  lib = makeExtensible' (self: let
     callLibs = file: import file { lib = self; };
   in {